Best Strategies for Including Your Dog on Your Wedding Day

Your canine companions are part of your family and including them on your special day can add a special and heartwarming touch to the celebration. Here are some strategies to ensure that when choosing to have your dog at your wedding, everything goes smoothly:

Plan Ahead:

  • Consider your dog's temperament and behavior. If they are well-behaved and enjoy socializing, they may be a good fit for your celebration.

  • Check with your venue to ensure they allow dogs, and if so, inquire about any specific rules or restrictions.

  • Public parks are venues too.  Be mindful of their specific policies and plan accordingly.

Wedding Outfits:

Feel free to choose your pet’s attire to complement the wedding theme but make sure it is  also comfortable for your dog. Make sure it's not too tight or restrictive. Some folks use the dog as the ring guardian and have a specially outfitted ring box that fits on a collar.

Designated Handler:

  • Assign a responsible person (friend or family member) to be the designated dog handler during the ceremony. This person can take care of your dog's needs and ensure they are comfortable. If you're concerned about the handling of your dog during the ceremony, consider hiring a professional dog handler who specializes in managing pets at events, ensuring that your dog is well-behaved and relaxed throughout the ceremony.

  • Communicate specific instructions to the designated handler regarding when and where your dog should stand, and any cues or treats they may need to keep them calm.

Practice:

  • Familiarize your dog with the wedding venue, especially if it's a new environment for them. Practice walking down the aisle and being around crowds if that will be a part of your day.

Include Them in Photos:

  • Work with your photographer to plan pet-friendly poses, allowing your dog to be an adorable and integral part of your wedding photo album. Consider a pre-wedding photoshoot with your dog to help them get comfortable with the photographer and the camera, resulting in more relaxed and natural photos on the big day.

Provide a Quiet Space:

  • Create a designated, comfortable space for your dog to retreat to if they become overwhelmed or need a break from the festivities.

Safety First:

  • Ensure that your dog is microchipped, has up-to-date identification tags, and is on a leash or harness when needed. Also, check for any potential hazards at the venue.

Pet-Friendly Decor:

  • If you're incorporating decorations, ensure they are pet-friendly. Avoid using items that may be harmful to dogs or that they might be tempted to chew. You will be distracted and busy during your ceremony and celebration and won’t be as attentive to your dog as you can usually be.

Consideration for Guests:

  • Confirm with your guests if anyone has allergies or fears related to dogs. This information will help you make arrangements to accommodate everyone.

Backup Plan:

  • Remember that not all dogs enjoy large crowds or events, so it's essential to gauge your dog's personality and comfort level. If your dog seems stressed or anxious, it might be best to have them participate in a smaller role or skip the festivities altogether.

  • Be prepared for the possibility that your dog might not be comfortable or cooperative on the wedding day. Have a backup plan in case they need to bow out gracefully

 

Memorial Mentions:

Just as we often want to lift our hearts to include deceased grandparents or other family, we can consider a memorial mention for those pets who have crossed to the rainbow bridge. Here are three ways to do that:

Include Them in the Service:

  • Dedicate a moment in the wedding program to acknowledge and remember any beloved pets that couldn't be present, adding a sentimental touch to the ceremony.

Create a Memorial Table:

  • Set up a memorial table with photos and mementos of pets who have passed away, honoring their memory and recognizing their significance in your lives.

Incorporate a Symbolic Gesture:

  • Consider incorporating a symbolic gesture, such as lighting a candle or placing a floral arrangement in their memory, to pay tribute to the pets that hold a special place in your hearts.

In conclusion, inviting your furry friends into your wedding day not only adds a special and heartwarming touch to the celebration but also creates lasting memories with your furry family members. The strategies provided above serve as valuable guidance to ensure that everything goes smoothly and that your four-legged friends contribute positively to the joyous occasion. Embracing their presence adds an extra layer of love and warmth to your wedding, making it a truly unforgettable experience for both you and your beloved pets.

Two brides with their two dogs at their Somers beach State PArk Montana ceremony.

Let’s Do this!

If you're eager to make your wedding day extra memorable by including your cherished canine companions, consider entrusting me to officiate your special day. As an experienced and passionate officiant, I understand the significance of incorporating your fur babies into the celebration. Let me help you craft a personalized ceremony that reflects the love you share with both your partner and your beloved dogs. Together, we can create a unique and heartwarming experience that you and your guests will treasure forever. Reach out to me to discuss how I can be a part of your joyous occasion and make your wedding day truly unforgettable for both you and your canine companions.

For more info. on the amazing locations featured in these ceremony with dogs photos- visit these links:

Holland Lake

Somers Beach State Park

Glacier National Park

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